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Tuesday, May 3, 2011

If Tomorrow Never Come 11

Ajal maut di tangan Tuhan.
And so, my abang ipar left to meet his creator that evening after his badminton game.

MAI ( My Abang Ipar )*

MAI loves my sister dearly.
And seriously, I have never seen anyone who pampered the wife more than MAI.
Ni MAI baru balik kerja.
Bukak pintu gate sendiri.
Park kete dia.
Masuk umah, direct gi dapur, amik kan air for my Kak Long yang tengah duduk bersenang lenang menonton sinetron atau apa mende drama Philipino kat TV.
Bini tu dah sah sah duk cam patung buddha, but he will make sure dia amikkan air for her.
Patutnya bini yang suri rumah ni la yang amikkan air kat laki bu balik kerja, ni dak.
And this has been like this for as long as I remember.

MAI selama hayatnya tak pernah lagik makan kat kedai without Kak Long.
Except on the occasions kalau kawan/officemate dia ajak dia makan yang tidak mengizinkan dia balik umah amik bini dia makan sekali.
Nama dia nak makan kat kedai tanpa Kak Long is a NO-GO item for him.
Tak de la Kak Long menahan dia dari keluar, tapi dia memang tak leh nak telan makan if Kak Long tak de.

And all this while,segala urusan MAI yang buat.
Now, he has gone, Kak Long akan rasa sangat kehilangan dia.
Semua benda kene buat sendiri.
Tatau la camna dia nak buat semua tu.
But I guess, now my Kak Long will find out how strong she is, hopefully.

Here, Mak Piah rasa, all wife out there, janganlah terlalu dimanjakan sampai tak tau nak buat apa shud you beloved husband meninggal tiba tiba macam ni.
MAI meninggal tak de sakit tak de apa.
Paling paling pun, dia ngadu sakit gigi.
Tapi Kak Long dah paksa dia cabut gigi yang buat dia sakit tu few months before his departure.

Amik tau la segala urusan bank, I know it is uncalled for for me to say this at this time, but to avoid all complications.
Learn from my Kak Long's mistake.
Laki dia bagi tau dia pin number semua, she didnt see it necessary to amik pot sebab she trusted him.
Sekang laki dah tak de, dia lak tatau pin number bank laki dia.
For the guys, kalau bini tu tak amik pot, write it down somewhere and remind her, kat mana nak carik shud anything like this happen.

Mak Piah pun sama.
Sekarang pin number, internet banking semua nak kene tulis dan buh kat satu tempat supaya sok meninggal ada family members yang leh access the account.
Idak la banyak mana pun duit Mak Piah, tapi kutlah ada barang seringgit dua.

Urusan harta benda, pun hendaklah dinamakan in case something like this happen.
So tak menyusahkan waris nak naik turun pejabat kerajaan.
Banyak sangat procedures nyer kalau meninggal tanpa menguruskan hal hal macam tu.

Tang hutang lak, toksah buh penama, so bank tak leh datang tuntut...kat akhirat esok menjawab lah.

Sementara hidup lagik nih, uruskan lah hal ehwal sebanyak mana dulu.
Kang esok dah meninggal kita tak menyusahkan sesiapa.

And yes, tell ur loved ones, you love them becoz it might be ur last chance to do so.

4 comments:

  1. yupp, that is so true..

    don't take things for granted..

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  2. I'm so sorry to hear that Mak Piah..

    I pray for your kak long strength to face her & kids future.. seriously, i need to remind my husband again on the same thing..wasiat and segala urusan bagai incase anything happen.. we'll never know when will our time come kan..

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  3. DLL/Ribbon
    Tu aaa..
    MAti itu pasti.
    So sentara idup lagik ni..meh kita sesama pikir how we can minimize the trouble that others will have to go thru in the unlikely event of our departure.

    Kalau cam Mak Piah ni, duit seciput tu is not worth the drama. So siang siang ni dah settled kan.

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  4. errr...takutnya mati mengejut
    utang banyak lagi.huhu

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