Cerita pasal Gadis di Kota Belanda masih jadik sebutan di meja meja kedai mamak, dan dimana ada crew.
Terutama di kalangan mereka yg sekebaya ijau dengannya.
Pelbagai spekulasi timbul, why she took her own life.
Cerita ceriti nya ada beberapa versi.
Well, that is not what I am going to blog about.
I dont even know the poor girl.
So, I am going to hope she rest in peace.
Apa pun anutannya, apa pun sebab that drives her up the wall.
I dont know.
Di kala mendengar cerita tu semua, tetiba Mak Piah rasa takut.
What if I am sitting kat next to a person who is drowned in his/her own problems,stress and depression and not know it?
I just felt that, bottled up problems can cause a person to do such thing, like this Kota Belanda girl.
Do we say hi to people we know and just hi?
Do we have the time to actually sit and ask how they were doing?
Ini bukan kes menyibuk ya.
This is seikhlasnya, care for the person.
Can we spend sometimes, to just sit and listen to their moaning?
Yes, it can get on your nerves sometimes.
Tapi sesekali bolehkah lend your ear and have your waterproof shoulder for some other people to cry on?
Banyak, orang yang stress, depress ni hanya perlu orang hanya untuk mendengar.
Tidak perlu bagi penyelesaian.
Just to unload the pain..that's it.
Nak selesaikan masalah orang macam mana, kalau kemampuan kita hanya setakat mendengar.
Just to be there.
It helps.
It helps the person who need help and you.
Dan kalau dah dengar tu, duduk dendiam.
Belajar dari kesilapan dia, and tell urself tak buat macam tu.
Jangan lak jadik Kak Nam.
Not good tau.
May I never discuss who is wicked and what wicked things he has done, but know good men and follow in their footsteps.
Isskkk..imagine if it's happen to our clan.. takut kann? tapi dalam diari hidup org Timur (matikla perasan lembut kann?) kita tak suka bertanya hal hal begitu dgn penuh concern.. biasanya mesti mcm nak carik gaduh...kann?
ReplyDeletehahhaha...orang timur katernyer.
ReplyDeleteYerp..tanya susah , tak tanya susah. u r right. tah aaa DLL, jadik cam payah. Jap gi kita dgr berita org sebelah umah bunuh diri..and masa tu kita menyesal, why didnt I ask if anything was wrong.
mcm2 versi saya dgr kes ni
ReplyDeleteemm...dengar jelah sbb xtahu betul ke tak