Sensentaps

Kadang kita sakit hati.
Tersinggung bila orang cakap mende yang buat kita rasa  we are itu we are ini.
Kecik hati sebab orang cakap macam tu macam nih.
We feel like, eh...sampai hati dia cakap kat aku macam tu, aku tak buat dia pun....
Sometimes we forget what we said or what we did, yang triggered orang cakap mende yang kita tak suka. Tapi kita tak salah, kan...orang yang salah.
Takkan nak menyalahkan diri sendiri ye dak?

Ada orang dia diam..diam but dalam hati dia tersinggung and dia biarkan terus terusan till one stage dia tak tahan, dia cakap and we get offended.
Ye, salah si tukang simpan  nih dia pendam apa yang dia rasa.

But did it ever occur to us, dia simpan sebab dia malas nak carik gaduh, sweeping it under the carpet seems to be the easiest way out, or so it seems at that point of time.

But human is human lah kan.
Whether we like it or not, sesekali sensentaps jugak.
Mungkin dah banyak kali simpan, sesekali merajuk, terkeluar lah kata kata yang menyakitkan hati and the person yang initially menyakitkan hati tu tersinggung, it makes the person yang memendam perasaan tu look bad.

It is a vicious cycle I tell you......
Kalau dilihat dari sisi yang berbeda, maybe kita leh faham kenapa hurtful words were uttered.
It wud be a good idea to ask oneself did we fuel it without realizing it???
Or we do...but just for thrill of it we continue to poke till the other party flares???
Maybe the evil side wants to come out and play, gitu...

It makes me think di pagi Ahad nan syahdu ini, did I hurt anyone unintentionally with my words?
I can be very vicious too, no matter how much I try to follow what is right.
But again, how right can I be?
I read kat mana entah, the road to hell is often paved with good intentions.

Faham dak apa Mak Piah cakap pepagi nih???

Yes, I hurt someone recently.
Ye saya merajuk sampai terkeluar kata kata yang menyinggung perasaan.
Did I do it intentionally?
Nope.